When my ex told me that she had had fallen out of love with me, I am feeling crushed, confused and miserable. The feeling of not being wanted is the worst that anybody can experience. This is probably one of the worst feelings that can be experienced in this world especially when you get it from the people whom you love the most.
With that said, despite their unwillingness to give you another chance, don’t feel disheartened. As time has allowed uncertainty and detachment to build between you and your ex, it is also time that will help you make your ex fall in love with you again.
You need to realize that your ex left you for a reason. You may feel compelled to plea for forgiveness and woo your way back into their heart. However know there is danger in doing so. At this crucial period it is imperative that you respect your ex’s wishes and not force the issue of reconciliation upon them. They did not break up with you on a whim. They had strong and rational reasoning for breaking up with you and it is unlikely anything you say or do will change their mind.
What you can do now is take care of yourself. Look at where you made mistakes and resolve not to do them again. Don’t be ugly or vengeful or cruel to her. If she ever DOES find herself looking back at your relationship, anything you say or do from here on out will loom large in her memory. Be kind, and humble.
Try not to be friend with your ex. This is because if you give them your friendship and all the benefits of a relationship without any responsibility what would make them come back to you?
Be quiet. Be positive and keep all your actions positive. The way you act is very crucial that may eventually take you back to your ex.
Keep in touch with common friends. You should be in touch with common friends and may be you can use them to reach your ex back.
Get a make over done. Do something what your ex wanted to do. Give a new refreshing look that can surprise your ex.
Move on. When your ex meets you should try to move on swiftly to have a healthy relationship. It is obvious that both will be looking forward to forget their past and look for a new relationship.
Date. You can casually date with your friends and make your ex aware of the same.
Patience. You need to wait with a lot of patience for your ex to love you back again.
Being single can be lonely, but this can be a real time of growth for you. Assess where you made mistakes, become a better man, and then when you’re ready, love can find you again. It may or may not be with her, but you will feel happy again. Best wishes for happier days.